I guess some people did not learn their lesson about mean girls...

Monday, February 20, 2017

     
    


 Thank goodness that we did not have social media when I was growing up because I think I would have been seriously in need of psychological assistance had I seen photos and videos of all of the parties and things that I was not invited to. Luckily, I'm a little stronger than I was as a teen but betrayal still hurts at any age.

     Here is what happened....

       I've been in a private facebook chat with a bunch of my high school girlfriends for years.  It is so funny and has been great to reconnect with old friends. We've met up a few times for drinks but "speak" so much more often online.  There is something so comforting about old friends. Despite all of the things we have gone through since high school, when I look at them, they are still my same fun buddies that  I used to giggle with about boys, call for advice and cry to about teenage drama.

    The group seemed to be getting along great until I opened my Facebook feed yesterday and saw everyone in photos with the hashtag #friendssincemiddleschool and the caption "Celebrating the first of our 50th birthdays". The location in the photos was Disney World.   Yes, 5 of the 7 girls in the group chat were whooping it up at the happiest place on earth and posting about it, yet forgot to include everyone. Another girl in the chat group and I were not invited.

     I was stunned. This was obviously not a spur of the moment meet up for coffee. In fact, one of the girls in the chat had asked for photos of the birthday girl a few weeks ago but did not mention it was for a secret party. I immediately felt like I did in middle school when I was left out of something. I remembered crying on my bed about something (I can't remember what exactly the drama was but I sure do remember the sadness about being excluded).  I remember my mom giving me good advice about true friends and the like while brushing my hair out of my face and wiping my tears away.

    The other girl not included and I instantly starting texting. (Yes, misery does love company). She was just as insulted as I was for not being invited. We tried to think of what to do. Here were our options:
  •       Leave snarky comments on their posts like "guess our invitations were lost in the mail"
  •       Text the guests while they were in the happiest place on earth saying "Hey, we are waiting f        or you at Cinderella's castle. Where u at?"
  •       Plan a huge party of our own and invite the entire class of 1985 sans these mean girls.
  •        Write something in the group chat about being so hurt about being excluded.

In the end, I decided to leave the group chat.  I really don't want to have a big fight or drama with these girls. You can never have too many good friends but at least I have a few "ride or die" people in my life. I don't need any bad ones. If there is anything good about being old enough for an AARP card, it's that I know that wasting energy on fake friends is not worth it. 

What would you have done? Do you think I should have done something else? I'd love to hear what you have to say. 

    

 

A Dog's Purpose!

Wednesday, January 25, 2017

    We all love our pets. I currently live with two cats who I really like but they favor the men around here. Here is the Queen Bee of the place, Miss Fatness (she has her own Instagram account!). She is very sweet but not the sharpest tool in the shed. Good thing she is pretty.
However, I have a dog-nephew Petie , who is certainly part-human. He is the friendliest, best dog that I have met. He even rings a bell when he wants to go out. Here he is in his Halloween costume. You just know he is more than a pet. Look at that smile. 
 

Petie is one of the reasons why I can't wait to go see the new film, A Dog's Purpose. It comes out in theaters on January 27th!. Based on the beloved bestselling novel by W. Bruce Cameron, A DOG’S PURPOSE, is a sweet and lovable family film that shares the soulful and surprising story of one devoted dog (voiced by Josh Gad (OLAF!)) who finds the meaning of his own existence through the lives of the humans he teaches to laugh and love.  Told from the perspective of “everybody’s best friend” the film highlights the importance of familial bonds, and the unconditional love we have for our best friends.  The movie stars Dennis Quaid, Britt Robertson, K.J. Apa, and John Ortiz.

Tell me about your pets. Do you think that they are part human? I'd love to hear your stories.





Courage is all you need to win...

Saturday, January 14, 2017

Girls my age love Luke Perry,  so I was really excited when Anchor Bay Entertainment asked me to tell my readers about a new movie coming out starring our favorite 90210-r. The film is called Race to Win and it is coming out on Digital HD from Starz and on DVD next month.

It is a heart-warming, family-friendly film about a family running a horse ranch. The DVD will be available in stores on February 14th. In the meantime, here is a link to the trailer.


Hillsong..Let hope Rise & Great DVD Giveaway (FREE STUFF!)

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

   We were the only Jews on our block when I was growing up.   Luckily, our neighbors were open-minded and although many of them had never really known Jews before, it did not matter to them. They became life-long friends. Religion, although important to all of us, did not play into being neighbors and friends during both good and bad times.

   Our neighbor, a nice man from Minnesota, made us a menorah out of wood in his workshop. Our neighbors did not leave us out when they were delivering Christmas cookies or caroling.  We reciprocated with Potato Latkes and dreidel lessons.

   As young girls, my sister and I  could not understand why Santa could not come to our house like he did to all of our neighbors'.  So we hung up stockings and left cookies and he did visit. We got to double dip! 8 Crazy nights of Hanukkah presents and Christmas Presents. Doubly blessed!

   What Christmas means to me if different from what it may mean to others. I love Christmas Trees and Santa and make sure to donate to both Christmas and Hanukkah based Charity events during the season. I don't get insulted if you send me a Christmas Card or wish me Merry Christmas even if I'll be eating Bagels at my mom's annual brunch held on Christmas Day.

   My point is that just because we may believe in different things, most of us believe in the same things...take care of one another, be kind, keep the faith and peace on earth.

    Hillsong-Let Hope Rise  & Great are great films that are coming out on DVD. They are coming out on December 20th and will make great gifts! Hillsong Media has given me copies of these movies on DVD. If you are interested in winning a copy, leave a comment below (tell your friends).  I'll pick a winner by random drawing!

   Here are links to the trailers...



Greater Trailer

Hillsong Trailer

 

The good thing about a hurricane heading your way...

Wednesday, October 5, 2016


     Hurrican Matthew is a big, bad storming heading towards my home state.  Hurricanes suck and blow. (Pun intended). They make everyone in town insane.

     Television news makes everything worse. This morning, during the on air hysteria, the reporter actually interviewed a person who got the "THE LAST FLASHLIGHT AT HOME DEPOT". I have plenty of flashlights around here, yet this report made me feel like I needed to go out and try to find more. They then showed lines at gas stations and empty water shelves at the supermarkets in an effort to make everyone more insane. They stated that tons of flights are being canceled but later mentioned that they were only flights to Haiti, The Bahamas and Cuba where the Hurricane was striking.

      Luckily, I was able to procure gas and water the day before the hysteria (Chalk one up to being a life long Floridian) but I did have to go to Publix to  get some extra provisions this morning including Pop Tarts and pretzels. Lord help us all if a true life emergency ever hits here because Publix was like a war-torn country. Everyone was  driving their shopping carts like true a-holes. No manners whatsoever. So much for humanity and looking out for your neighbors. I literally witnessed an argument between strangers in the bread aisle and someone trying to steal water (only the really expensive stuff was left) out of someone else's cart.

    My cashier was on the verge of tears. I contemplated giving her cash tip or one of my pop-tarts. By the way, television meteorologists, supermarkets, and Home Depot LOOOOOOVE when a hurricane approaches. It is like their own personal Black Friday.

    So, do you want to know the good thing about a hurricane heading your way? Your Facebook Friends stop posting political posts and start forecasting the weather. That's something I guess.

    Currently, my house is out of the cone of destruction but we are expecting crappy weather. Go away Matthew.  Matthew McConaughey is aways invited to the Hurricane party....

The Queen of Katwe!

Friday, September 23, 2016


With all the political nonsense and horrible news on television these days, it's time to head to the movies. I just love movies that have a heartwarming and good message, so I can't wait to see Disney’s QUEEN OF KATWE  which opens nationwide on Friday,  September 30th.

The film is based on the inspiring true story of Robert Katende and Phiona Mutesi. Phiona was a young girl living in the slums of Katwe, Uganda. One day she stumbles upon Katende and a group of children playing chess in a makeshift church. Through the guidance of Katende and the game of chess, Phiona is encouraged to believe in herself. Eventually, she finds herself not only competing in local chess matches, but winning in international competitions. Robert and Phiona’s story celebrates the notion that champions can come from the most unlikely places. Here's a trailer...



I know a lot of unlikely champions. People who overcome obstacles in their lives are so inspiring. Who is your favorite unlikely champion these days?


Inspiration in the form of a movie plus paying it forward to a coach!

Thursday, August 25, 2016


  My kids detest when I write about them on the blog but let's just say someone I know just got dropped off at college. I'm so excited for him. The biggest challenge for him and for any college freshman is to balance the freedom and all the fun that comes with it with the work that needs to be done. During the drop off, I tried not to cry and tried to squeeze in some last minute words of wisdom like " Don't do drugs!" and "Don't skip School!" Seriously, my hope is that all of the years and hard work leading up to this time in his life will remind him not to give up when the going gets tough and to keep his eye on the prize.

  During  the trip to college,  my son and I were lucky enough to get to screen the new film GREATER. Greater is an inspirational movie based on the life of Brandon Burlsworth.  As a kid, Brandon only wanted to play football for the Arkansas Razorbacks. However, Brandon pretty much stunk at football and  was written off by coaches and teased by his fellow teammates.  Most people in his situation would just quit but Brandon kept showing up for practice. He woke up early every day and worked harder than anyone else. Guess what happened? He got better and better. His hard work and determination paid off,  not only was he given an opportunity to walk-on and play football – he became one of the greatest players on the field, and was drafted by the Indianapolis Colts. This film could not have come into our lives at a better time. Hopefully, he will remember Brandon when faced with challenges at school and be inspired to persevere.

The producers of GREATER, have given me a $25 gift card to give away to someone who inspires children. I'm going to give it to a teacher that I know that always reaches into her own pocket to make sure that her students have what they need to be successful. If you get a chance, take the family to see Greater. In the meantime, what inspires you? I'd love to hear!



 
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